The As The World Churns Family

Monday, June 9, 2008

WARNING: Not for small children - bikini photo!

Well, today I went to Fran the lifestyle coach for my weigh in. I'm .5 pounds away from the 20 pound weight loss mark, but I am going to go ahead and post my bikini photo. I mean, I bought the new suit so I might as well show it off, right?

It's kind of scary to do this here on the internet where everyone can see it, but I'm trying to go a little outside of my comfort zone. So I went out by the pool today and took the photo in the lounge chair right next to the pool. Here it is:
















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Pretty HOT looking, huh??

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Warning: bikini picture coming soon!

OK, I went and bought a new bikini last week. My husband thinks I look good in it, but I still feel a little shy. However, as soon as my weight loss has reached the 20 pound mark, I will be posting a bikini picture on my blog.

Just thought I'd give you a little heads up because I only have a few more pounds to go before I reach the 20 pound mark and you may want to block my blog site on your computer so you don't scare the children:)

Great Teachers Change Lives!

School ended for us last Friday. As the kids said goodbye to all of their teachers, I think their thoughts were racing ahead to summer activities more than to gratitude.

They may not have gratitude now, but hopefully someday they will.

Personally, I have lots of gratitude for the teachers my children have had.

So far we have been really blessed in that I think my kids are getting a great education. Our school system allows for relatively small classroom sizes, physical education, music, fine arts and extracurricular activities. Of course there have been a few duds in there, but for the most part I am absolutely amazed at the dedication, enthusiasm and passion that teachers have brought to the table. They have helped Bo and I to raise our children!

I know the power of a teacher. My very favorite teacher shaped who I am to this day. Mr. Dan Mortlock. He taught me sophomore and then AP senior English. But he taught a lot about life as well.

I remember the time he came into class and gave this powerful lecture on why we should not believe in something (it might have been God or perhaps it was some political policy. I don't remember what is was, but he spoke very convincingly and had everyone going along with him.) As his students, we were just sitting there nodding our heads yes as he made one good point after another to support his cause. He was a very good public speaker!

The next day he walked into class and absolutely read us the riot act on how malleable we were, how weak that we couldn't think for ourselves! I mean he ripped us a new one for not questioning his stand! It was a powerful lesson: question things. Stand up for what YOU believe in, not what someone else tells you to believe in! Between sophomore English and again as a senior in AP English, Mr. Mortlock gave one life lesson after another about gratitude, existentialism, about civil rights, about enjoying the simple things, about poetry, about being your authentic self, about "thirsting for knowledge", about surrounding yourself with excellence and many other things.

He thought I was smart and I actually believed him! He always told me that he thought that I would achieve great things in my life and I believed him!

A poem that I have memorized from my time with Mr. Mortlock:

The Red Wheelbarrow
William Carlos Williams

so much depends
upon

a red wheel
barrow

glazed with rain
water

beside the white
chickens.

to me this poem seems silly at first, but says a lot about appreciating the little things in life and how every day things are a blessing.

As well as learning about many famous authors, Mr. Mortlock brought out our abilities to create literature/ poetry:

Somewhere in Between
by "Ellis"

In all our veracity
we independently seek
to purify this venture
that is now at its peak.

A leaden tint,
not dove,
not crow.

But
better blush
than colorless
we're somewhere in between.

The poem (to me) was about how sometimes relationships can be a little "muddy" - at the time it was about my relationship with a boyfriend who had gone off to college while I was still in high school.

Dan's "stamp of approval" was huge. Being a blond, cheerleader-ish valley girl type in high school, it may have seemed like I was fully self-confident. But what teenager really is? It's a tough time and Mr. Mortlock gave me faith in myself.

So this blog is dedicated to Mr. Mortlock and all the teachers like him who change a student in some way--whether by igniting a love of learning, increasing self-esteem, or just being a supportive and encouraging cheerleader for the student.

Thank you to all the great teachers that my kids have had and to all of my own wonderful teachers, especially you Mr. Mortlock!

Thirst for Knowledge!!!!!

Thursday, May 29, 2008

Camping Out

We are camping out! Not in the woods.... no,we are camping out in our own house!

I decided that I couldn't stand the kitchen anymore and that it really needed updating. One day during a weak moment, I told Bo my plans and he said "go ahead and pull the trigger." So I pretty much got out the shotgun and blew everything up. Two weeks ago we got the ball rolling and now we are "roughing it". The microwave and fridge are in the family room as well as the table. We are living off of paper plates and cups and cooking with the microwave and the grill until everything wraps up (hopefully next week).

I love that saying that "All who wander are not lost", but baby I'm lost. Sometimes people say that I live in my own little world, and I am ok with that - they know me there.

So I'm wandering....I'm looking for my happy place and I am having trouble finding it.

The kitchen is taped off like E.T.

I have a terrible headache - maybe it is the paint thinner? Maybe we should open a window? Can't do that - it's 90 degrees outside!




Everything in the cupboards had to come OUT - what a bunch of junk!


ET Phone HOME!!!!!!!



Above: Our "campfire cookstove"

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Going the Extra Mile

Today Anne had her confirmation ceremony at our church. She has faithfully attended every confirmation classes - every other weekend for three hours -- for two years! Initally she started doing it with the promise of a car for completing it. But she says that she really got a lot out of it. We are very proud of her and her commitment to God today. We celebrated with a pool party/ BBQ at the house. It was 90 degrees and a beautiful day. We had about 40 people over to the house and we had lots of fun!

I have been wanting to post this link to a u-tube video that I LOVE. It is about living a purpose-driven life no matter what you do. It is about how one person can make a big difference in the day-to-day life of their fellow man. It is about letting the God in you shine through to others.

In honor of Anne's confirmation day, please take a look:

JOHNNY THE BAGGER

Thursday, May 15, 2008

It's A Girl!

Joy to the world! My sister just called and informed me that I have a new niece! I am sooooooo excited! After a 3 year wait, they got their "referral" today and fell in love immediately with their new 2 1/2 month old baby girl. Her Ethiopian name is Etame and she is gorgeous.

I am so amazed at how much you can attach to a child after only seeing a picture. My first experience with adoption up close was about 11 years ago when my older sister Ann got her referral for a six-month-old girl from Korea. I had always wondered how long it would take to bond to a child that you had not given birth to. Even as an aunt, not a mother, I was shocked to discover how bonded I was to a little 3 x 5" picture. Once I saw that picture, that baby was a part of our family. Picking them up on the other side of the world a few months later was just a formality.

I felt the same way when that same sister went on to adopt another child (an infant boy) from Korea a year later. Then just a few months ago she and her husband added a joyous 6 year old boy (a "waiting" child) from Vietnam. Now my little sister and her husband have added to her family (she has a four year old son)via adoption and again I am in love with the baby in the picture.

I can't wait to meet her in person! Thank you God.

Monday, May 5, 2008

Polygamy - What's up with that?

It's been in the news alot lately. This group of people out in East Texas who are a radical branch of the mormon church and believe in polygamy.

I tell you, it is a cryin' shame what is happening to these people. It makes me want to head on out there in the middle of nowhere and save those women!

What, you say, could one suburban housewife do? Well, I'll tell you what my plan is. I plan to load up my SUV with a bunch of professionals and hit the road. I am going to grab some of the best hairdressers they have up at the local Supercuts and get a few personal shoppers from Kohls and we are going to help! Those chicks have got to be SO SICK AND TIRED of wearing frumpy hand-made tent dresses. I can't wait to get a good silky tank top and some short shorts on them. They will thank me for freeing them from their cotton bondage! And the hair ... I can't keep typing because their hair is so bad that it makes me too emotional... you understand where I'm coming from, right?

I'm not really into the whole time-share husband thing, although I'm sure it has it's pluses and minuses. But I gotta tell you that I would LOVE to have a couple of extra wives around! Especially these drones who do all the cooking and cleaning and childcare. That would free up alot of my time for some other important tasks. Important things like manicures, massages and lengthy gossip sessions at Starbucks are SO hard to squeeze into my busy schedule! Get those pesky household chores out of the way and I could accomplish alot more in life!

Too bad the guys started going for the young gals. That IS horrible. Seriously, no jokes about that. The sexuality with minors is absolutely inexcusable. But even if you put that aside, we have definite proof that these men are insane. I mean you would have to be out of your freakin' mind to want a 15 year old wife! When a teenager does the cleaning up, it looks like you have Stevie Wonder as a housekeeper. No thank you!